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Welcome to my quirkycommunity!

It’s easy to feel lonely in your choices if you’re not following a traditional path. You’re not alone.

You’re never alone when you’re quirkyaone.

 I help you stay true to yourself with books, life coaching and travel adventures.

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My books

Get to know me by reading my books! Quirkyalone: A Manifesto for Uncompromising Romantics is a cult favorite that many say provides perpetual comfort and laughs. My book To-Do List: From Buying Milk to Finding a Soul Mate, What Our Lists Reveal About Us is a study of what makes us tick, via our lists. I’m at work on a memoir called Wet. Stay tuned. This book will be more than juicy, it will be wet!

Awaken body and soul with Wet Coaching

Your sexuality and sensuality is connected with everything else in your life: your life force, health, confidence, verve, boundaries, and of course relationships. All too often, we neglect these parts of us, or bury them. Explore Wet Coaching with me for a gentle, supportive growth experience in one of the most important areas of life.


Build your confidence with me in Brazil

Come away for a Body-Positive Adventure Workshop in Florianopolis. Learn pussy-walking, get support from other women, and reset your body image with a boudoir-photo-shoot-in-nature with Natalia.


Learn tango as a metaphor for life

The Tango Adventure in Buenos Aires is not just a stamp on your passport, it’s a transformative experience. We gently support you to take your first tango steps in Buenos Aires and help you uncover what tango has to teach you about connection, confidence, being a woman, and walking tall.


Sasha’s work has been featured in:



What if you could shift “there’s something wrong with me” to “I’m not settling”?

“Sasha Cagen gives you the tools to not only understand and appreciate your true essence, but also you learn how to fully access your inner voice which will lead you to the people, places and situations that honor the very best of who you are. I highly recommend her books, classes and coaching if you have felt stagnant, alienated or as if something is missing.”

Paula White 


“Sasha Cagen is up to something that could be as important for women (and men) as The Feminine Mystique was years ago: We aren’t just halves of couples; we are distinct individuals—as complete and potentially happy alone as we are with our families and lovers.”

Barbara Ehrenreich,

best-selling author of Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting by in America and Bright-Sided How the Relentless Promotion of Positive Thinking Has Undermined America 

Sasha Cagen is something of a hero for the growing ranks of singletons who are learning to feel secure with their status, and she is often their public face. She appears frequently on popular national television and radio programs to explain that going solo is a viable, legitimate, and not necessarily lonely way to dwell in a city—a point that is surprisingly controversial given how many people are already living alone.”

Eric Klinenberg 

Sociology Chair at NYU + author of Going Solo: The Extraordinary Rise and Surprising Appeal of Living Alone

Working with Sasha has been instrumental in huge changes in my life. It has helped me define who I am and what I want. Helped me leave a job and find a new one, helped me have a wonderful long-distance relationship and helped me feel resilient when that relationship ended. It has made me proud of my independence and has made me want to work on my muscles of relationship communication. I am so grateful for the QA movement and the freedoms and confidences it has given me for the past year.”

Megan Cramer 

New York, New York

“Thanks to all that I’ve learned with Sasha, I was able to express myself so clearly to my new partner. I finally had the language to verbalize my vision of an interdependent relationship. I met a man who shares that vision and appreciates that I’ve been so honest and upfront and ‘me.’ We connect fundamental values and that is gold!”

Hilary Davies  


“Reading your books, visiting your website and taking your classes have been the pitstops of my journey back to my truly me.”

Andreas Mueller 


“I cannot WAIT to read Wet! I think you’re doing such a great service for women, reminding us that we have the right to live a turned-on life!”

Yancy Lael 

Ottowa, Canada